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What do you do if you don’t like the language in your child’s IEP?

In this episode of The Collaborative IEP Podcast, I answer a question that came in from a Down syndrome association and applies to almost every family I work with: what to do when the wording in an IEP or evaluation feels off, unfair, or just plain wrong. Parents are not only allowed to weigh in on how an IEP is written, they are supposed to.

In this episode, I explain:

• Why parents can and should weigh in on how an IEP is worded
• Why descriptions of a child’s physical appearance rarely belong in an evaluation
• How to reword language that frames normal social struggles as pestering
• Why language that implies behavior is a choice can be unfair to a child
• How to mark up a draft IEP and return it with suggested language
• When it helps to explain an edit instead of leaving it to speak for itself
• Why naming the skill deficit behind a behavior leads to better supports

Language in an IEP is never just semantics. The words a team chooses shape how a child is seen, and over time, how that child comes to see themselves. Speaking up when something feels off is not adversarial. It is part of collaborating on a document that has to serve your child well beyond this one meeting.

Listen now to learn how to spot language that labels or blames, and how to ask for something better.

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